Unschooling How it Can Look in the Real World

Unschooling… Have you heard of it? Have you wondered what it really looks like? Has it piqued your interest from time to time? If you answered yes, you are in luck. Today we are getting an up close look at un-schooling. Believe me letting go of the “norm” and putting trust in your kids interests to guide you is HUGE. However, I’m a firm believer that sometimes this is exactly what you might need. Whether you adapt this style occasionally as a break from your normal homeschool routine or un-schooling is your everyday life. I am sure you’ll enjoy a look into how un-schooling can work in the real world.

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Erin is an un-schooling mom of two nature loving kids and here is a peek into her homeschooling life.

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Hello all, I’m Erin… drinker of coffee, knitter of knits, and keeper of our home. I’m also a homeschooler! I home-school our 8 year old son and have done so for the past 3 years. We also have a 3 year old daughter who, although too young to actually “homeschool”, still wants to do everything that her brother does. Our style of homeschool is probably best described as eclectic and un-schooling. I, however, see our homeschool as simply following our children’s interests, while keeping their curiosity sparked and their love of learning alive and bright. Our homeschool is filled with nature walks, music, and books! That’s my romanticized version of our home-school at any rate. The reality is that most days I’m just trying to keep up with our children as they bounce from one subject to another with 1,000,000,001 questions that need answering, combustible energy that needs burning, and endless books and experiments strewn all over our home.

Why does our homeschool look like this? Because this is what works best for our son. I began our homeschool journey thinking the Waldorf method was the way to go. I also love the philosophies of Charlotte Mason and the Montessori methods. For our son none of these home-school philosophies worked. He is incredibly asynchronous. He can tell you about the vertebrae of dinosaurs and the fenestras in their skulls and has even taken an online Paleobiology course through the University of Alberta….but he still can not tie his shoes, has terrible anxiety and struggles with completing tasks. He is easily bored with subjects and I find that planning out our homeschool is a complete waste of time. I try not to plan out (and always with his input) more than a week in advance because what interests him this week, what works for him this month, may not be the case next month.

We make weekly library visits, and each time we come home loaded down with 30-40 books of his choice. Last week it was Greek Myths and Grammar. This week it is Robotics and the Magic School Bus Series. Watching different documentaries or reading encyclopedias creates new interests for him. For example, an episode of Bill Nye the Science Guy got our son excited about the Earth’s crust, mantle, and core. This led him to choosing all of the library books he could find on Earth science. We then made a visit to his favorite museum that has a huge section on rocks and minerals. He even bought a chunk of Selenite (Gypsum) with his allowance to add to his rock collection.

Our son loves books, be they in hand or audio. His favorites include The Lord of the Rings trilogy, Journey to the Center of the Earth and 20,000 Leagues Under the Sea. It’s hard keeping him in books.

We try to go outside daily. We all feel rejuvenated after a nature walk and there is always something to discover. We learn something new as we observe the seasons, the weather, and the animals in our community. The children build forts, play in a nearby creek or play pretend.

Our son learns math through real world application and by playing math games either on the computer or on his iPad. He is extremely visual. He learned about multiplication 1-9’s one afternoon with an app called math slicer. He asked me what the “X” symbol meant. I explained that it stood for multiplication and was a form of groupings. His eyes lit up and he exclaimed, “I get it!” and off he went. He beat the game that night.Some of his other interests include Herpetology, learning Spanish, learning to play guitar, learning cursive writing (quill and ink required), knitting, and LEGO’s. He has eclectic interests for sure.

I believe our son’s ability to play and use his imagination is of utmost importance. He is always dressing up and pretending. Always painting his and his sisters faces or wearing masks. They are both always defeating a dragon, evil wizard, or winning a battle. They even get their friends in on the play. When his public school friends get home from school one of the first things they do is raid the costume trunk. Then, outside they run for epic adventures and quests. Einstein once said, “Logic will get you from A to B. Imagination will take you everywhere.” Imagination is something I strive to encourage and foster in our homeschool. By letting our son be himself, explore his interests and nurture his love of learning, I hope to set him up for success…whatever that looks like for him.

I’m Erin, an eclectic homeschooling/unschooling mom to two very intense kids. Everyday I try to find what works best for myself and my family. You can find me blogging at Nourishing my Scholar. You can also find me on Facebook, Twitter, and Instagram.

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Teneal says

July 17, 2018 at 3:40 am

You are my spirit animal! I love this so much. We currently live in Bahrain (military orders) but will be back in the US by 2021. We’ve traveled around in Europe and are hopeful to travel Asia now as well (we’ll see?). But, this is my ideal for our unschooling journey! Although we live right on the water now, it’s a million degrees outside and we just can’t spend our days in 120* weather! I plan to keep up with your blog as we continue this journey <3
Thanks again!

Laura of Harvest Lane Cottage says

April 22, 2016 at 12:48 am

It sounds like a wonderful life and a wonderful education. We’ve done a bit of unschooling and Charlotte Mason and Teaching Textbooks along with lots of volunteering and real life. It’s not what I originally planned, but it’s what’s worked with our life and limited resources.

Blessings from Harvest Lane Cottage!

Fieldhockeymom says

March 28, 2016 at 7:50 pm

This sounds lovely… And I am certain this method would work for our kids too… Anyone out there unschool four kids of varying ages? Any tips on managing four separate interests?

- tessa w says
  
  October 9, 2016 at 11:24 am
  
  Late response but my boys are 8.5, almost 6 and almost 3. Number four is due in the spring. It is an adventure to unschool them as they are so different. The biggest tip I can give is to learn how each of them learn and connect to the world. That makes strewing resources so much easier. I try to spend some time each week observing them as individuals to discover their interests and methods and make brief notes of what they have been up to. Not only does this give me a starting point for finding things (books, shows, toys, etc) to encourage their interests, it also gives me a written record of their learning journey for my own enjoyment as well as to share with my home school facilitator. It doesnt have to be complicated at all.
  A couple unschooling blogs I love are Stories of an Uschooling Family and These Temporary Tents.
  
Mother of 3 says

March 28, 2016 at 12:51 pm

Perfectly said!

- Erin @Nourishing My Scholar says
  
  March 28, 2016 at 7:54 pm
  
  Thank you.? We are just doing what works for our kids and our family. ?

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